The True Role of Sex

In essence, sex is the means by which you reach deep connection with another human with whom you recognise a “natural attraction” which derives from a need to share and exchange energies that will be useful to you on your path. With a partner or spouse you each have energies the other wants in order to fulfil your purpose. Where the attraction and love is strong, the connection is profound and that means you are “very good for each other” in energetic terms, since you each have large amounts of energy the other wants. At its most basic, this is all there is to it. It is important because it gives you much needed and desired energy that will allow you to fulfil yourself at a higher level than would be possible without each other.

Sometimes that involves a lifetime exchange and sometimes the role of that person comes to an end and you move on. There is no need for attachment in this regard; you naturally know when it has come to an end.

Understanding these things allows you to see the value in sex and, in turn, in exploring your sexuality which allows you to maximise this very natural and desirable exchange.

That part of your energy system (your sacral chakra) that is responsible for sexual urges also drives your ability to manifest your material and other desires and also to draw people to you in furtherance of the fulfilment of your purpose. By drawing people magnetically using this same energy, you literally “pull them” (in a non-sexual sense) and this allows them to give you what you need and vice versa, just as in a sexual exchange. In this way, there is balance as each gives to the other in fair proportion and so does not drain you. In the absence of balance, the encounter becomes abusive of the “loser” in favour of the “winner” who may even take all. Such relationships are unfair and imbalanced and rarely last.

Returning to the subject of sex itself, it is not about whether it is “good” or “bad” or even “trivial” but an important tool for fulfilment of one’s life purpose. However, distinguish the pursuit of sex as an end in itself or as an addiction driven by the ego from fulfilment of self at all levels within a meaningful exchange or relationship for mutual benefit. The latter involves an essential beauty of purpose and a perfection in nature (God’s perfection). The former is not wrong but does not serve you and indeed drains you as you are drawn into multiple unhelpful exchanges that may even draw negative energy to you such as disease or abusive relationships. The secret lies in loving and honouring yourself to empower you to make the right choices, whether for short term or long term sexual fulfilment.

I hope this largely channelled explanation of the true role of sex, free from temporary societal judgments, helps reveal the wonderful reality of what is a beautiful gift from the universal father.